Hi ya hot stuffs.
Have you been enjoying the guest posts? Ã‚Â Been missing MY voice on the matter? Ã‚Â Well I have a special treat for you: Ã‚Â ME!
As many of you know, it’s been a hard year for my sex life. Ã‚Â Multiple IVF cycles and one miscarriage has really put a damper on the bedroom action. Add to THAT fun is a toddler who has made it her missi0n to cockblock me. Ã‚Â Or is that TWATblock? Ã‚Â The kid REGULARLY wears me out, leaving me with no energy for the dance of the monster with two backs. Ã‚Â (Like that one?)
But recently I discovered just the trick to a successful session of boots knocking. Ã‚Â It takes a commitment but SO worth the effort.
1. Ã‚Â First you should have fertility issues. Ã‚Â Or maybe you could try this if its April 16 and your spouse (or you) is a CPA. Ã‚Â The point, you shouldn’t have sex for a LONG time!
2. Ã‚Â Enlist the help of a toddler. Ã‚Â This toddler will have to be skilled in the talents of depriving you of sleep, using you as a jungle gym and being well for lack of a better word, a toddler.
3. Ã‚Â Add 3 cats. Ã‚Â It has to be three, four if they’re fat and lazy. Ã‚Â You know cats. Ã‚Â You can’t depend on those fickle creatures. Ã‚Â One of them is going to let you down. Ã‚Â Be sure they’re trained to scratch at your door if you close them out, bath themselves quite loudly beginning the moment you’ve returned to bed after the toddler has been settled down for the 2nd time that night, and maybe even make sure they don’t like each other. Ã‚Â This really doesn’t work if they’re a pile of snuggle buddies. Ã‚Â The icing on the cake: Ã‚Â a schizophrenic feline with a oozing abscess. Ã‚Â THAT one will do wonders for building up your sexual frustration.
4. Ã‚Â Bonus tip, if you can manage to get pregnant in the middle of this warm up period, you are miles ahead. Ã‚Â The fatigue of the first trimester is key to denying yourself and your partner of sex.
With all this prep work done, your partner should be ready to jump you at any opportunity.
Are you ready?
The night of the big event, feed your kid, make sure the cats have water and check the bedside table. Ã‚Â Believe me, you don’t want to be reaching for the wrong lube at 3 o’clock in the morning. Ã‚Â (Yeah, for those who aren’t in the know, fertility treatments really mess with your body’s um, functions.)
Excuse me, I have a bottle to throw away. Ã‚Â Never again am I going to get so worked up and then feel like I’m having sex with a fine grade sandpaper.
Ladies, this is ME talking here. Ã‚Â You don’t have to shave your legs, wear some sort of lingerie that is going to leave you with a yeast infection or even put on deodorant that day. Ã‚Â He’s going to be ready and will take what he can get.
So, after putting the schizoid cat in a far away room where you won’t be able to him scratching, return to bed. Lay on your side away from your partner, but be sure to bump your rump against him. It’s really all it takes. Ã‚Â He’ll take the hint.
For YOUR maximum pleasure, just lie there. Ã‚Â Really! Ã‚Â Just lie there and enjoy every rub of the rear. Ã‚Â Let his hands roam. Ã‚Â Don’t stand in his way, roll into him a little as he works his way over your flannel jammies and kid stained t-shirt.
You’ll want to touch him but don’t. Ã‚Â His attention will get more intense the less you respond. Ã‚Â Don’t give him the cold shoulder. Ã‚Â A moan, faster breaths, a shudder here and there is all it will take to get his blood boiling.
When his hands do make it under your clothes, you’re probably ready to get on with the good stuff. Throw those stinkin’ socks across the room, swing that tshirt over your head a few times and shimmy out of those jammies. He’ll appreciate the effort. Ã‚Â But be sure to keep something close to wipe your hands on. Ã‚Â That lube is some sticky stuff.
Hopefully, you can take it from here, right? Ã‚Â I mean, unless you KNEW you were barren, I suspect you and your dude have tried making kids the old fashioned way (in the backseat of a car, on the kitchen counter, in a Burger King bathroom.)
I do hope I’ve given you the tools you need to get you and yours to the next level of intimacy and ecstasy.
Oops, before I forget: Ã‚Â For the love of all things HOLY, REMOVE THE BATTERIES FROM THE TALKING ELMO! Ã‚Â Trust me!
Before you leave, I do need your help. Ã‚Â Are you anxious to get some stuff off your chest and your blog isn’t the place for it? Ã‚Â Like to give you shot at some fantasy or maybe you’ve got a tale from college that you wouldn’t dare share, UNTIL NOW!!!! Ã‚Â I need some guest posters.
It can be for this sexy series or maybe you’ve got something else to share. Maybe you’ve got a Thursday 13 list that just doesn’t fit on your blog. Hit me up. I’ve got the place for you this month!